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New Wives, Virgin Wives (Some advice)
How do you handle intimacy when you
are a new wife AND a virgin? Firstly, just the thought of
someone touching you and being that personal with you is scary. That
thought alone is enough to make you not want sex because you are
petrified of all that is new in marriage. Though this first encounter is a
bit frightening, it does get better.
This is your husband now. In the event that you have children, he will be seeing more intimate parts of you than just your chest or
your butt. This is your mate, the one you will hopefully share the rest of your life with. The one you will be seeking to fulfill all
your needs outside of intimacy as well as the private moments. It is a little nerve racking at first but the beauty of being married and
sharing your body with someone who will be your friend, your lover, the one you can count on... something about that just eats away all
that fear. These scary feelings will disappear in no time you will
see.
Also, don't forget to communicate. You have to let each other know what is pleasing and not pleasing. And never divulge all of
your romantic secrets and ideas all at once. Leave your husband with something to look forward to. We all have a little something
something (this is not a typo) hidden away. As the years go by, that hiding place begins to collect some interesting ideas! : 0 )
So I leave you with this, a husband is one of the best things you could ever be blessed with. Cherish him, love him, and treat him
like no other. Submit your body and soul to him and you will find treasures that you never knew existed. Surround yourself with
women who love their husbands
dearly and not with those who have nothing good to say about
marriage. Relax, the intimacy will become easier and the more you
love and understand each other, the easier it will be to
have a fulfilling and wonderful intimate life and sex life.
Tahira
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